She's Killin Me Here ... Could Use Some Tips on Living With the Elderly

I know how Elderly inlaws can be a real PIA but as time goes by hopefully you will find balance again. We have the same problem with her father that sleeps on and off all day while watching TV. It is almost impossible to get him to change even though that behavior deteriorates his health even further. I like the advice given here to give her a purpose through chores etc.. I tend to believe that when the mind loses purpose the body soon follows.