She's Killin Me Here ... Could Use Some Tips on Living With the Elderly

simple put her in a home,she will be happy there she will be with people just like her.

That's not even close to true.

I've known some elderly that have enjoyed being in a home, and I've known some that beg to leave, and/or lay in bed all day, asking to die.

Billy and Leanna are trying to help her, and are concerned about her health, mental state and happiness. A home may be in her future, but assuming everyone is the same, and suggesting the easy way out without research isn't helpful.

Decent nursing homes are very expensive, too.