Marriage/relationship question

I read a lot of good points here. One thing I learned is that if you are too involved in another activity that your wife may been feeling like she is being played as a second fiddle. It could be your job, your car, the internet, hanging out with friends, drinking or anything that is robbing too much time and/or money from your relationship. Date night is a wonderful thing, we do it when ever we can and it doesn't have to be expensive just something you both enjoy. When the romance is gone out of the relationship the intimacy is sure to follow. Anything causing her stress will cause the intimacy to suffer. There is an old saying "If momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy".