Marriage/relationship question

Thank you for your insight and opinions. I truelly apprieciate the way you all have handled this question. Let me hit on some points, as for helping around the house, I do the cooking. All meals, everyday. I take care of the yard and other household chores. As for romance, I write her poems, give her cards and flowers. As for another interest, we both work the same schedule and are home every night together. We talk about it and she say's "I want to,and we will but not now... soon" I love her with all my heart, but this needs to change.