Never figured I'd be driving over to a girl's house so she could dump me

pauly said:

I'm with working on your car. Keep your mind occupied and hang out with your friends. As everyone else has said, it will pass. Usually the best time to find a new one is when you aren't even looking!!

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I would if it weren't so blasted cold up here. That and I've run out of money for it at the moment. I plan on hanging out with friends as soon as I can. The funny thing is, I wasn't looking when I found her.

TexasDart said:

Grab your balls off the shelf and find you a good women...tell her to get to Tennesse already. See you later. Woman don't want whiney *** men anyway.
Then learn sentence structure. Woman love guys that car write properly. That was really hard to read.

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Dude, first relationship. Also, getting dumped was my biggest fear of getting into one. Which is probably why it took so long for me to get Into one in the first place. Now that I've experianced it, even though I think I felt something for her, I've found out that it isn't so bad. First time is always the hardest. As for my sentence structure, bugger off.

Rocky_JS said:

"I actually tried, harder than many things that I've tried at before to make this work"
If you had to try it was not right and these are your own words.

I would not call what just happened a rejection?

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I guess try was the wrong word to use. While it felt right, I tried to make it go smoothly and it really felt like i was actually doing something right even though I had no idea what in the hell I was doing. And it wasn't that hard at all. So I guess what I should have said was that I tried to make it work and it didn't seem to require very much effort on my part at all. The fact that she didn't break up with me for that reason might have meant that I was doing something right there too.

Dart_Doctor said:

I will share this it may make ya feel alittle better .

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Thanks Asa, even if nothing happens maybe while we won't get back together the just friends thing could still be there, ATM I'm doubting that though.

wirenut said:

Time heals all wounds, especialy this kind. Go out in the garage and work on your car, have beer, have a cry, and move forward. What ever you do dont listen to the radio. When your heart broken seems like every sad song was written for you!
good luck

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Too late, I listened to fade to black about 25 times on repeat. No I'm not in that in "that place". It just fit.

SSVDP said:

Yes it's difficult but you should know that you're not the only guy this has happened to. I got married a little later in life... Well a lot later. I went with some wacky women and i was always happy to hear when one moved far away - with time you'll realize that she did you a favor by moving away.

Are you in Wisconsin? I always thought that state was full of hot blondes- you should be able to upgrade.

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Bah, they're all German chicks. I live in the Germantown area. After seeing those all the time they loose their appeal.

sorry for the wall of text guys. Just kinda needed to get this off my chest.

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Thanks Asa, even if nothing happens maybe while we won't get back together maybe the just friends thing could still be there, ATM I'm doubting that though.


Some times thats nt the best way to go nether . Some times its best to cut bait and run . You are the only one that can make up your mind tho . Take it EZ bud

The first one is always the hardest,after a couple more it won't be that big a deal ,u move on and eventually find the one that really is the one and only

Yo youngblood,keep it together dont allow her to rob you from potential
compassion that you will have for your romantic interlude.....treat her
like a full tank"of gas" when the gas is gone " ....fill -up at another pump...lol
kepping moving pimping....
Peace....

Find that one thing that was not your favorite thing about her and blow it out of proportion and tell her to F off, easiest way to get over someone is to hate them.

Best thing to do after getting dumped is to go out hoggin.

That's what a good friend at work told me......

after 2 years of living with my girlfriend, buying a car with her, going to florida to meet her ENTIRE family, her meeting my family (ive lost too many of them since, 2 grandpas, a cousin, and a couple close friends, who to me were family) going through so much and hashing through i cant remember how many ups and downs, she has decided to move out. just remember, dont burn bridges you may want to cross later on, just say eachothers peace, and leave it that. it finally got to the point where it wasnt worth being mad at eachother anymore, and we both decided its for the best. just keep your chin up, and remember, no matter how bad it gets you can cuss at your car all you want, at least it doesnt talk back, or throw knives at you. ;)