9th Anniversary of my Sister passing, Wife not happy

Johnparts sorry to hear about losing your sister. Sounds like you and your wife have a comunication problem. You two need to talk to each other and show respect for each other. I don't think its a good idea to call each other names face to face or here on this forum. I know I make this sound simple and at times it is tuff but you can't take it back after it is said and it will come around to bite you in the *** down the road. Life is to short to go through it fighting with your mate. You might want to talk to a counselor or minister.

I try to talk to her all the time. Problem if it isn't good for her or what she wants then she won't listen. I've suggested counseling and therapy she wants nothing to do with it.