Sorry to here this it sounds like she is a little inmature and needs to grow up. If there is a lack of comunacation you are destined to fail. I would tell her calmly that it is a deal breaker that if she is unwilling to seek counseling than you may have to call it quits. Bad way to go through life fighting all the time. If you have kids it will sure screw them up. I will keep you in my prayers and hope she will change her mind. She sounds like my first wife, very spoiled by her family. I rode it out for 10 yrs of hell and called it quits. She really showed herself during divorce and said she was going punish me. It was quite costly to free myself of her but it was the best thing I ever did.
