Wife is pissed

i feel your pain. my lady has been with me for 6yrs. were not married but might as well be. i dont make a ton of money but i work my *** off and put in alot of over time. bills are always paid and we live a pretty comfortable lifestyle but it pisses her off when i blow a bunch of money on the car. then it pisses me off because i shouldnt have to ask to spend the money i busted my *** to earn. its a vicious circle.