Still waiting for explanation from the state

For all who have helped and been patient with me on this forum, thank you. I am still waiting for a final explanation from the State of Missouri on my case. My X left me back around 94 for her "lover" filing for divorce of course. She moved to Texas with the kids. The divorce agreement said child support ended when the kids turned 18 and she has never disputed that. One daughter is turnign 20 and the other 22 this summer. This past summer she decided to go after more money. Standard story, she has had 3 new houses since the divorce, many foreign vacations, many new cars, lived the lilfe of Riley and I found having no money is a good way to lose weight. She filed with the State of Texas social services as if I were a dead beat dad (don't need a lawyer) who filed with Missour. Missouri said I owed close to $20 grand, were reporting me to credit agencies, threatened to take my tax refund (this was in July) garnish my wages, suspend my DL, professional license, you name it. And then they asked if I wanted a hearing. I submitted all the paper work, copies of divorce etc. Hearing was in December. They are taking $1250 a month from my pay and last week seized my federal tax refun too. They sent their decision that seems to suggest I won but are still taking my money. My lawyer says I won and we've been weeks trying to get them to tell me if I did, will they stop the garnishment, give my money back, and give my tax refund back. Got a leaking water heater and haven't been able to afford my Diabetes meds in going on 3 months (feed kids or take meds). I am hoping a praying that soon this will be over and I can start work on my cars again (68 Barracuda, 68 Charger, 66 Valiant convert). So many people on this forum have offered me better than great deals on parts I can use and I feel bad having to say "maybe." Thanks for putting up with me.