trying to find a replacement heater core that FITS!

Could take it to a radiator shop and have them re solder it. Measure what you need and have them redo it.

Yes you will likely have to do this. I tried three different cores and finally had to have it modified. None of them even came close to fitting the heater box. One was so ridiculous that I didn't even leave the store with it to compare. It has to be pretty exact to fit correctly.