i know what you mean.
My wife and i can be driving down the road and i'll say "what the hell are they doing?" or something like that and she say's "what, what?"
i ride motorcycles and have most of my life, and i watch 360 degrees around me even when i drive a car because of that i guess.
She say's "i almost never see people doing stupid things in traffic"
i just tell her that this does not surprise me at all.:d