What is my seal called?

NO, I mean NON HARDENING thread sealant, it will say that right on the tube. You can pick up small tubes of it at your local parts store and possibly the hardware store.

The only reason I suggest it is because I have seen a few of them seep through the splines, it's minimal as a rule but still a leak nonetheless.

And if memory serves me I do believe it's 1 1/4" nut.

Of I gotcha. I will check Napa today. I have pipe dope. If that made sense. But I will check the parts store. Just put it on the splines?

Yeah, its hard to measure. I came up with 1 1/4. Hard to get the ruler inside the yoke area. I have to buy a socket when I am out today.