anybody got kids, past or present i got questions

Be firm and fair. Don't let them get away with anything because they will try you more than once. I raised two 23 and 28. Both are respectful. The dog idea is no joke same concept. Remember if they are going to be like this now, they will never leave and always ask for help or support. teach them responsibility and give praise when it is justified. I have seen too many kids always get what they want and before you know it they are 35 and still haven't left the house or have a job. Apply the board of education to the seat of knowledge.