anybody got kids, past or present i got questions

You cannot accept a woman to be your wife and not accept her children even tho they are not your biological children. That mentality will never work.

You Sir have my complete respect. Some folks might not understand where you are coming from.....and that is to bad for them......These are probably the same person that will spend his life putting on a front that he is content and happy while he is walking around with his trophy on his arm. The same trophy that makes well grounded folks just cringe....and then laugh uncontrollably.....