Im lost at this stuff.... HELP?

Its not about listing to people its about actually having the money to do what is being said, If I buy a TQ then that's it I am tapped, but I can buy the cam and a new gear set and wait for a TQ down the road, people keep saying, you need to buy new intake new gears and new TQ. Most of all you guys know, it all comes down to money, right now driving my car is like driving a cruise ship it goes NO WHERE, all because I changed out to this huge thumpr cam for the sound, yes I know that was a bad idea, just changing the cam down smaller like it was before I know will give me better results, and I have the availability to get a set of 3.21 gears and its all in my price range, if I wait to buy the TQ and a intake down the road I should be way better off is what I have been reading from most people, but at the same time I have other people who do not understand they fact that money plays a KEY factor here.

I didn't mean to offend you or anything, just stating a fact. I understand about money, believe me. It's when you DON'T have alot of cash that you really have to not only ask for opinions, but do research on the parts, and decide what you want your car to do. Don't buy something to compensate for other parts that are wrong! You gotta make a plan, and stick to it. Do you want to deal with numerically higher gears and a higher stall, and also the poor mpg, and the engine buzzing along at a higher rpm? Or, do you want torque and alot of midrange power, and also have the ability to cruise comfortably? That is what I meant when I said YOU have to decide.