I DO agree you SHOULD get a 4 post switch (properly known as a DPST, which means "Double Pole Single Throw)
I DISAGREE not to run a relay. The VR wire is the voltage sense wire as well as the power supply to the VR. A long run of wire all the way from the VR, back to the switch, and back to the original ignition buss introduces voltage drop and will cause an overvoltage / overcharge condition.
Using a relay (or continuous duty solenoid) up front to supply switched ignition loads, including the VR supply, removes this problem,