Where's my fender dude?

I feel your frustration...
Ive gotten to the point where I ask if the part is in stock/actually in their hands.
And if not,what exactly can I expect. If what they say doesnt happen,stop the credit charge.Sounds like you have run into a middle man,without the part. Now they are stalling untill they or you get the part.
The no comunication part is what I dont like.
So yes,I would be upset,and would want some answers.