help me pick cam re-grind for magnum 360

That's incorrect. A friend and I have had several regrinds done by Oregon. They reground a factory hyd roller for him and got it to 108. Still had plenty of meat left. Remember, a good cam grinder can put that lobe anywhere in relation to the cam core he wants.

Let me clarify somewhat. There are TWO different cores for the Magnum engine. Now I forget which is which. There's the 318 and 360 core. One has a 109 factotry LSA and the other a 113. But still, it was the 113 that they were able to get to 108, so there's room to move them if you find a good grinder.
Not many cam grinders would do this. I'd guess that Oregon swapped your 113-114 core for a 110 core to get you there. Changing the LSA more than a degree or 2(at most) on a cast core is NOT something a good cam grinder would consider reasonable if you want a cam that will live.