What Would You Do?

No, This is not the TV show.
I sold a car on Ebay last month and the person that bought it has flaked out twice to come pick it up already. Last word was Father's day weekend and he was a no show. Supposed to come up this weekend and get it, so I sent an email to confirm it on Wednesday. No response!
It has been over one month already. Just so you know all the facts, I am in the SF Bay Area and the buyer is in San Diego area.
What to do?
1) Relist the car and give him his money back?
2) Relist the car and tell him tough luck?
3) Start charging his storage?

I would never do that to someone so I really need your honest help here guys, because I know how I would want to be treated.
Thanks in advance.