help needed bad ASAP!

OK you mention the u shape on the resistor. So do the terminals run top to bottom or left to right? Also what set of terminals should I be terminated to? The lower value or the higher value? My box did not have a good ground so that it part of the problem. I have a 3rd box on order. If I do run the 4 pin box how do I ground or eliminate that one extra wire?

We grounded out the neutral safety switch at the rely and the car cranked over. So I believe that the shift post moved and I will have to drop the pan and readjust that. Thanks for telling me how to do that.

Thank you guys! I suck at electrical trouble shooting.