Lugs not staying tight

torque and use blue lock tight

Do not use locktite on your lugs ,just a small amount of antiseize

I actually throw a little grease/ oil on mine. Wheels which HAVE been a legit problem is some of the cheaper "spoke" steel wheels that used to be so popular. They used a flat stamped sender, and had no raised area around the nuts. These were constantly a problem on my friend's 3/4T 4x4