Thankfully all my hard parts are still hard.......oh wrong subject lol. I inspected all ball joints and tie rods and they are all good just need to replace some of the bushings. Thanks for all the info guys ill exhaust all options.
I went with the Moog offset bushings, and improved strut rod bushings. I only used poly for sway bar mount bushings (I don't have any bushings on the end links).
My take: Everyone seems to think you need massive t-bars, SS springs and non-compliant bushings in order to handle. I don't think that's true. What you need is NEW bushings and the correct alignment setup, then add some roll control and decent shocks. Things need to be tightened up to the point that they work the way they are supposed to.