upper control arm help!!!!!!!!

I had the same thing on my Scamp when i tore it apart. Soak it down really good. Then then turn the bolt it may only go just a bit each way give that oil a chance to work its way in there. it was a PITA but I got it without a torch. Your doing the best thing you can do now is take a break run out soak the piss outta it. Sleep on it and try again tomorrow.