we were pretty much the same until age 14 almost 15 when we were separated and now we are completely opposite people, I think the difference is because of difference in environments ......at 14 I was brought to the U.S. and she stayed in India. I see her once a year but we are not really into the same stuff now......she does not know really what a mopar is ....they all look like old cars to her, and she don't speak English.
she has no desire to come to USA even for a visit .......I feel sorry for her that she has never driven a big block car and had a hamburger.