EFI Bung in head update

What MS are you using?
That will help me diagnose the rs232 problem. Perhaps they are using handshake wires too. When you get loopback garbage is that on the PC end with 2 and 3 connected on the other end?

If that happens without cable at PC end, it is serial port problem. Other wise, the hard to read pin numbers may be off, and using 1, 3, 4 at one end.