******Posting! Don't change the core of A-bodies.

I admire your honesty. Sharing honestly involves risk.

My understanding is that evil resides in all people, restrained in some more than others but there nonetheless. We are all masters of self deception. We see it in others but rarely even get a glimpse of what resides in our own hearts. And yes, as I see it, we come into the world far more hard wired than most could ever imagine. The way we are is dictated by DNA. We have to play the hand we dealt

Exactly....we have to play the hand we are dealt. And if the hand I am dealt poses that much of a problem for someone than perhaps they need to move on...

Thank You. I don't have much in my life anymore....except honesty. Do I drop the ball? Sure do....and if I feel I was wrong will often step and admit it. Back when I was employed I was a very evil person, to the casual observer. To those that knew me, not so much.


Folks can say what they want, but a difference in opinion and how folks perceive things is what often starts the wars that happen not only but in real life. Hell, that is pretty much the reason why I resigned from being a Moderator here. Lot of folks have a hard time with looking at things differently. Look at some of the threads on here that have gone south. They start out as a simple disagreement. Someone says something, that because you have no way of perceiving how it was said, starts the fire. The other side of this conversation gets fired up from his perception of things being different than how it was supposed to be and next thing you know the name calling and bickering starts. Is this sort of behavior right? Nope....but it is nature of the beast.....like I was told time and time again by someone at the tail end of my time as a Moderator.....It is just the internet.....no reason to get so fired up over it...

Keep in mind that the above ramblings are MY OPINION .Feel free to disagree, I will not be hurt over it. Now will I argue with you over it as you are entitled to your own opinion.... Feel free to think I am a cold hearted bastard or what ever you chose to call me. I am who I am, and if my being the way I am I bothers you would suggest one of two things....either learn acceptance or put me on your ignore list....But to ask me to change the way I am so you don't have to put me on your ignore list is just down right childish....