well what i really meant is that life is what you make of it .....no one has everything work out perfect every time ....thats impossible ....but if you focus on the triumps only then its like as if everything always works out.
i have had plenty of things not work out for and some bad things happen to me but the outcome of it all was positive because thats what i focus on. The bad things that have happened to me actually lead up to me now which is a very happy me because thats what i focus on.
even the bad things that happen in life open oppertunity to move to a different direction which has as good enough chance of turning out good as it does bad.
if bad things had never happened to me, i probably wouldnt be in the USA now, i probably wouldnt be into cars, i probably would have not gone to college......there are a thousand probabilities. but i focus only on the good ones that did happen. :D
