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Water pressure at the well tank is good but coming out of the faucets in the house it's dropping. Also, it takes a LONG time for the water to get hot at the faucet now which makes me think the bottom element is bad. We have REAL hard water out here and the tank is 11 years old. Everything I have read suggests it's toast.

Bladder tank could be bad Rob, or might need a shot of air.. As far as the aerators, most faucets have them, it screws on right where the water comes out. It could be a bunch of junk got sent up to them and they are clogged. Unscrew one and see if your water flow improves.