Diabetic folks

Unfortunately she has tried every mask they have to offer, they all leak. When we first met she did not snore....at all.....She went to see the ENT that took care of septum problem....he took one look in her mouth and told us that if she were to lose some weight the apnea would disappear.
It kills me to see her just sit here, all day long. She stays busy with her sewing but if she is not sewing she is just sitting. Most nights it is the same thing, we have dinner, she does the dishes, finds her blanket and snuggles up in the lazy boy, slipping in and out of being awake. When I ask her when she is going to start exercising she gives me a bit of an attitude. Sad thing is she is getting very close to pushing me into a manic state with this.....it has become EXTREMELY stressful for me. I love the woman, and I don't want to see her end up in a terrible situation that could have been prevented.
My first girl friend and I still talk. Her Dad had diabetes. He slowly lost both of his legs due to it. And ultimately lost his life to it. He did absolutely nothing to help himself. Knowing this....and seeing what she is doing to herself.....is scaring the hell out of me....

You have every right to be scared ink. I went to my heart doctor last week I forgot to include that as a side effect of diabetes, but in my case Chemo and diabetes my lower heart muscle is weak and I am on meds for that again I went without it for 2 months and it's starting from scratch again.

Do you both have bicycles? If so get them out and get her to go bike riding with you in a park to help her get started.