What would you do?

thats an assuption that women dont like powerful cars .,......i can tell you first hand that some ladies do actually like to have a car with tire frying, put you back back in your seat, NASA launching POWER. :D
She likes the power of the SRT, when we first got it she said "If I am going to have a muscle car I would at least like it to sound like a muscle car" So I promptly put exhaust,cold air kit, and a programmer on it!
Take a look at Comp's 20-746-9, sounds like it would meet your criteria. It's the cam I'm running in my magnum and it's very daily drivable with a mild slightly choppy idle and good overall manners. Specs are 216/224, .506/.506, 114. As for a coverter, I personally run a 9.5" 3400 but it did ok with a stock converter too. For a daily driver I think a good 2400 would probably do just fine.

http://www.summitracing.com/parts/cca-20-746-9/overview/make/dodge

I don't have a good idle video but if you need one I can make it tomorrow.
Thanks I will check that out, sounds like what I am looking for.
ask her what she wants,..i mean shes the ones that gotta live with it or make you re do it in the end...
Yep that is true.
i was just messin with you guys ...because it is the assumption usually that women are into "chick cars"

but seriously i would build to suit her needs and most of all ask her.....to some people its worth the extra coin in gas to drive what you really want.

i spend more in gas myself but its worth it because im driving the car i want which does not do very good MPGs :D

The Challenger only gets 21 and I feel like with the FASS EFI, headers and x pipe we can get that with the Duster.