Huge change in my life coming :(

take this from someone who went thru 2 separations and then a divorce. You can get through this and be a better, stronger person on the other side.

As for the kids, be there for them, my kids were 13, 10 and 7 when we first separated, then 18, 15 and 12 when we separated the 2nd time, for good. The older 2 kids knew that apart, life was better for them, no fighting to put up with, tension levels in the house were diminished, it was a better environment for them. I moved out9joint decision) and spent as much time with the kids as I could, eventually getting custody of each during the roughest, teen years.

There will be times when you are deep down in the dumps, weather these storms, they, too, will pass.

I've been divorced 10 years now, and actually, my ex and me get along better now than we did for many of our married years. We have 3 fantastic adult children, and 2 grandchildren, so we've had to learn to occupy the same area together from time to time, during functions.

YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS

If you need an ear, I can pm you my phone #

FF