Huge change in my life coming :(

As one of the younger people on the site im going to throw some info your way and take it as you will. Ive been thru 2 divorces as a kid, first i was 2 and dont remember anything, but the second between my mom and step-dad was ugly.

as the child i saw this sudden change in the parents towards each other before they were near breaking up, so dont bank on they dont know. As things started to get nasty i was caught in the middle and used, that was over 15yrs ago and i still resent everyone involved. I know its hard to breakup (same thing just legal gets involved) but dont pit the kids against the other, dont use them for gain, and what ever you do just be honest.

I have no place in your life but you need to talk to the Mrs. and tell her above because this is one place in my life is ruined and i would hate for anyone else to carry this feeling.

Something you should know is after the dust settles and time passes, you may become friends again, but your kids will ALWAYS hold onto what happened, so make it as pleasant as possible for them. Dont make them choose who to live with, dont make them have to live with that...

I hope the best for all of you