Huge change in my life coming :(

As many said, best for children if you remain friendly with her,never speak bad about her

They know something isn't right, don't think they are in the dark, they can feel it.

My daughter was 2 when we got divorce and I got her at 4 and raised her from there. Until she got to be an adult I never said anything negative about her mom and even as adult didn't say things that could not be backed up.

But her mom and I didn't have to have contact with each other. She just stayed out of her life for the most part. Not good but think she had a good childhood.

Be an involved parent, go to school functions but don't do anything that makes you look bad in there eyes in front of others.

You will survive, and hopefully your life will also be better

It takes 2 to make a marriage work, but it only takes one to ruin it. If one does not want to be there there is nothing you can do. Maybe a separation will bring you closer, it does work sometimes when they miss what they had.

Good luck and hope the best for you