well not on alot dealing with life

My first one "officially" (court) ended 30yrs ago this year. I came home from a 9 to 5, took off my dirty clothes, and when I went to the closet to get something to put on, it was half empty. Totally confused, I went thru the apartment and noticed our kids rooms were basically empty. I got to the kitchen only to find a note on the counter that said they had gone to her mothers and it was pretty much over.......

Long story short, I had to go on with life/work, but it took months for it to settle in that it was over. This came completely out of nowhere, that's what really hurt.

Fortunately, we were both young and didn't own anything of substance.

I'll keep you in my thoughts, it's going to take time. Best case scenario, you guys can work this out, but if not, i hope you both can come to a equitable settlement when all the dust clears.