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junior said
that really sucks bro went through it twice last time three years ago turned out she was screwing my so called best friend. I am a trucker also seems most women need their men with them... go figure.. I still suffer from depression as the last one spun me out real bad. I take it one day at a time and lean on family and friends a lot. it does get better just takes time. Once the relationship is over its all business so get a real good lawyer cause she WILL go for the throat they all do. keep your anger in check and don't text bad stuff she will save them all and use them against you. Prayers have already been sent your way. stay strong

Hate to disagree with you....when I went thru it I raked my Ex over the coals...All of our debt was joint. She was in such a rush to get away from me she would not listen to the attorney. She wanted to give me all the equity in the house, and some land in MT in exchange for getting out from under the debt. Does not work that way. We did our best to reason with her about it but she would not listen. I took complete advantage of it. Had her quit claim the property in MT to me, had her quit claim the house to me, had to refinance to get her off the note. The day I had my copy of the divorce agreement I filed Bankruptcy. Few months later she was screaming at me...how could you blah blah blah....Simple enough, pay back for the hell I went thru....Anyhow, she ended up having to file BK, lost her car and the place she & her new Husband had just purchased. Believe she even lost her job over it....First words out my mouth when we got serious was a warning not to play games with me....She should have listened...

Don't mean this as a slam on anyone....but anyone that claims they are completely innocent in a failing marriage is not being honest....it takes two to make a marriage work and two for it to fall apart...unless the spouse is a complete nut job....but even then the other part PROBABLY had there doubts going in to it....