HELP!!!!Put in 8 3/4 rear and it vibrates real bad

OK, that's eliminated, but you still need to deal with the U joint issue. Get the combo U joint that will fit both driveshaft and the larger yoke on the diff.

I guess if you have the wobble on one side, I would start looking at the new bearing install and make sure it's centered/seated. Is the brake drum seated properly around the center register?

Did the axle appear bent in anyway when you changed the bearings? Or did you buy it that way?

I don't think it's possible to get the bearing so far off that it tweaks the axle that bad (where you could see it)

A person could run it on a stand with the wheel and drum off also.
That way you can check it right at the axle flange as see if it has runout.