I guess I didn't repond fast enough?

Well i guess I'm alone on how I deal with ads. I ask shipping because I have gotten some really wild shipping cost on items from here and other sites. But I would thing if I'm asking shipping cost the seller should no I'm interested? I mean really my life has gotten so boring that I'm asking for a shipping cost just to waste my time and yours. But it is what it is. I'm not suicidal cause I didn't get the starter.
Rest assured when I sell items on here and you ask me for a shipping price first, I won't sell to another till I reply to you.
Well here's an answer to this post, I put a set of headers on here a couple weeks ago and a guy hits me up right away and asks for shipping costs, so I go out get a box weigh it and measure it up and send him the shipping costs and guess what?? absolutely no response since saying he will pass or take them. So asking for shipping is NOT a done deal. in my opinion its kind of a waste of my time since it has happened many times here-even one guy telling me he was'nt a deadbeat and still bailing with no response. Most people arent making money on the shipping and if you think the shipping cost is too high then pass, but remember-the person spends their time packing it, labeling it then driving their vehicle to the shipping point so if you think the shipping is $5 too much then I guess you got a great deal if thats all the overhead you had to pay.