Help! I fried my starter....nOOb....

or just pick one up at the junkyard, magnum engine etc. very rarely do you get a bad one, rebuilt one is another option , auto zone etc. make sure all of the connections are good on the cables, check for oxidation on the ends of the wires, sometimes it will travel down into the wire where you cannot see it. It would be highly advised to have the battery load tested also and fully charged. you can test the relay but for the price id just get a new one.