How to Repair a Couple of Wiring Harness Problems

I don't know where you get the special automotive stuff, Ford was the first I ever saw that used it, you might try a dealer

Otherwise, just waltz into some place that sells household electricals and ask for "aniti ox" grease. It's used for stuff like aluminum terminals

Would I be asking for something like di-electric grease, or is that not the same thing? By the way, thanks for all the input. It is much appreciated.