filler neck and spectra tank

I would loosen the tank straps a bit and see if I could get things straightened out. When everything is lining up to suit you, stick a floor jack with a block of wood under the tank and put just enough pressure on the tank to hold it in place. Then tighten the straps, release the jack, and see what you got...

Yep. I'll try to reposition it next weekend. I remember trying to get the neck in the new grommet before when it was lubed with I think power steering fluid was like putting a square peg in a round hole. I pulled some arm muscles that day. Sometimes the second time is the charm. Mostly it's the lack of leverage to push on the neck with it anywhere near the car.