Data link connector

I have a 2001 5.2 ram engine that I'm installing and connecting the data link connector (DLC) to go into the interior somewhere. Right now I'm just trying to get it wired in but the pin-outs do not match the diagram in the FSM. I also have a couple of other diagrams from other vehicles that also don't match. Was wondering if anyone else had encountered this? I'll try to get this as close as possible, being partially colorblind.

cavity# color
3 violet
4 black/green
5 black/brown
6 dark green
7 pink/blue
9 pink

11 white/black
14 white/blue
16 pink

Just to clarify: I'm looking at the connector from the cavity side, not the wire side. I have enclosed a diagram of the connector with cavity numbers. Thanks for any help, I'm kinda stuck for now.