ex girlfreind .....

some relations are meant to work ( for decades upon decades), some are " worked" out along the way on a rather continuous basis, some people stay together " for the kids", some people are not meant to have a companion, and sometimes "all" involved" just need to say, " this was a mistake" and go their ways!???
"nothinbutdarts" : my advice is " even though judges are lawyers, ( enough said), they will stand my the LAW, and they tend to recognize those that lie and are trying to manipulate the court or system. just be honest, take a deep breath and calmly answer his questions.......
hacksaw: hey man! I thought I was the ONLY guy to ever get divorced " at over 60"!???? LOL