ex girlfreind .....
... funny, how some people decide anyone that's divorced is a failure in life"?????
I didn't see anything at all, about divorced people being a "failure in life".
318willrun said
to say it takes two to end a marriage or both sides have their hands in the divorce is wrong.
That's not what I said. Here's my quote... "It usually take two people to screw up a marriage".
In that sentence, the word "usually" is a qualifier. It means that in most cases both parties are at fault to some extent, but it does not eliminate the possibility of one party being the problem.
I don't mind your taking issue with what I said, but I have to take exception when you take issue with what you thought I said.
longarm said
Maybe your just a lucky one.
Hope you never have to hold the stick by the shitty end,
you might possibly come away with a different point of view.
We make our own luck. I did go through a divorce after a two year marriage to my first wife. I've been there, so I'm not just talking through my hat. That divorce was quite literally due to both of us. Both were at fault, and both were victims. In most cases, that's what happens in a divorce. It has nothing to do with "luck".
It's been said that we reap what we sow. I've found that to be exceptionally true.
