ex girlfreind .....

My conclusion is that marriage is not equal to commitment.
I know a married couple who are not committed to each other. The husband goes out to topless bars all the time and brags about it.

so what if he goes to topless bars that does not necessary mean he is not committed....men like that sort of thing and its just how it is....that is like trying to get dogs to quit butt sniffing .....isn't going to happen.

If he is sleeping with other women then that is bad but he should be able to look but don't touch all he wants ....that's what guys do so what....probably just means that she is not doing her job at home to keep his attention on her only.