Ebay Feedback....

Almost sounds like she forgot about you, until you sent the message about shipping. I think that if she was really telling the truth, then she would have upgraded the shipping at no cost to you. She could have been to sick to get out to the post office, but that shouldn't have stopped her from communicating with, just to let you know her situation. I personally would leave negative feedback. How is her feedback record now, if it's 100%, then maybe her excuse is legit.