Embarrassed a perv today...

This thread has turned upside down because we really shouldn't be saying or implying that anyone is ugly or less than. The problem with the world is that too many people get judged by the way they look more than the content of the brain and heart.

Some of us already have self esteem problems so we don't need to be reminded of the imminent problem of aging and change in general.

I think some of the hottest men I know are old and would be discounted by society but knowing who they are makes them hot. Really hard for some people to understand.

Supermodels are only hot because they look good on the outside but some are actually rotten people.

It sure is compliment to be "checked out" but like anything ....it all should be kept in moderation because too much of anything is bad. The person getting "checked out" also needs to keep their modesty in order and realize that getting "checked out" does not make one better than others in any way .......my .02