Embarrassed a perv today...

The governator is still the Terminator. No doubt. I agree with 73AbodyEE and Wheels' comments about flirting.

The difference is that flirting, while it may be recognized by one or both parties involved, being hit on is acknowledged, directly. So, the circumstance is obvious with being hit on, while its not as obvious or direct, with simple flirting.

I will say that some of the times I was hit on by guys, it started with flirting. Other times, it was just crass remarks made. Girls, though, they are a lot more subtle, unless they are drunk, in my experiences. I remember once, my ex's friend would NOT leave me the hell alone. I was doing whatever I could to not engage and disengage in conversations that I was solicited in, because I knew she wouldn't leave me alone. I ended up having to leave her birthday party early, after she flung her legs over my lap, when I was sitting on the couch.

Most of the time, girls will not do this, but crazy people come in all shapes, sizes and sexes.