Whoa There Almost Homeless Guy

Kids are a pain in the arse my 25 yr old son moved 8 months ago but not until I put my foot down and cut him off from my checkbook he felt entilted to everything I have and expected to have my lifestyle and not have to contribute.
I paid for his college education bought him several cars when he divorced his wife spend 20 k on lawyer for him to have custody.
Now that he cant count on my funds and has to be a man he has decided that I should not be in his life or see my grand son .
From what I have learned I believe my mistake was to give him everything he ever wanted and not hold him accountable for his own life live and learn.
Kids today feel entilted to their parents life and when you make them do it themselves you become the bad guy

Yea, our oldest Daughter is kind of like that still. (same basic attitude)