Headlights and tail lights drawing to much power! Help

are you still using the old amp meter or are you looking at a volt meter?

either way, the readout should go up with revs...at least a little
sounds like a bad alternator to me but if the battery maintains enough juice to crank the engine day after day that cant be it

Right, so how long has the car been running like this?
What is the volt reading at the battery?

We will know where to go from the answer of those two questions.