Somebody get the spelling police !

It isn't about spelling. It is about putting a little effort into making yourself understood. Lazy teenagers typically say "you know what I mean" because it is too hard to help the listener, who doesn't know what "that thing", "over there", or such means. My wife is often like that, so I just wait until she puts in more effort. If someone doesn't care enough to try, I care even less about prying it out of them. How many times do we play "20 questions" with people who ask for help here, but don't state the year, engine, and other relevant details? After 19 questions, they finally provide "it is a 96 Ford diesel truck" or such. If advertising, you are only hurting yourself if you aren't clear.